Sunday, November 6, 2016

Scott's China Trip - Part 2: Long flights, Small treats, Big Ripoffs, and Misunderstandings


Having traveled a lot for work with my three years of visiting El Paso with my dad, I had learned to pack fairly lightly and get by with not very much in the way of luggage. So despite going on a week-long trip to China, I fit everything into a small carryon and a mostly empty backpack (it mostly just held my laptop and the samples I had ordered off of Amazon of products I was interested in sourcing and selling myself). I flew from Boise to Seattle without incident and then had a three hour layover to tangle with. My friend Walker—who had traveled to China a few times himself—told me the food on the Chinese airlines is pretty good, but I still figured I’d need to get something to eat in case the flight food didn’t agree with me. After finishing a pretty darn good breakfast burrito from Qdoba (or something like that) I found a lonely Egg McMuffin, still in its wrapper, abandoned and alone on a charging table near where I sat down to watch the news while waiting for my flight. After a few minutes of looking around, waiting for someone to come and claim it, I decided to give it a good home. I spent the next hour or so of my wanderings about the airport casually looking for a microwave somewhere to reheat it, but to no avail. I ended up eating it cold but told myself it was supposed to taste that way and it ended up being quite good.


Before I boarded my flight I sent a text message to Matt and Mike that I was boarding the plane and would look forward to meeting up with them in Shanghai. I told them that I had book myself a hotel room at the airport Ramada since I hadn’t made prior reservations due to the whole visa fiasco. Just as I was boarding they wrote back that they had already booked and paid for a room for me with the rest of the group at the Double Tree. For the next several minutes I was frantically trying to cancel my reservation on my phone, but all of the links in the e-mail that said “Cancel reservation” or “Change reservation” just sent me to the home page for the hotel and tried to sell me another room. On top of that I was now on the plane seated in the exit row directly across from the flight attendant. She told me repeatedly that I needed to put my phone away. I would turn it off and put it in my pocket and then when she left to check seat belts or something I was frantically back trying to save myself the $150 I was going to lose if I couldn’t cancel this reservation before takeoff. I finally had a brilliant idea and texted Mitzi to ask her to cancel my reservation since I was going to lose connectivity in a matter of minutes and was having no luck. I barely got the text off and forwarded the e-mail when we took off and I lost connection.

For the first hour or so I was stressing about whether or not Mitzi would be able to figure out how to compete the cancellation. Then I decided there was nothing I could do worrying about it other than make an already long flight longer so I put it out of my mind and tried to get comfortable. The food on the flight was pretty darn good, and the plane was quite nice. I sat next to a Chinese mother and daughter who both slept almost the entire flight, an accomplishment of which I was envious. I tried to sleep in various uncomfortable positions but with little success. If I craned my neck backwards I was able to see out the window and, to my surprise, noticed that after four hours in the air I could still see land. Curious! It turns out our flight path basically had us tracing the West coast of Canada and the Aleutian Islands until we hit the East coast of Russia, Korea, and then China.

Because we were flying into the rotation of the Earth it was daylight for we on that flight for about 20+ hours straight, which was a little disorienting, although I really didn’t feel that tired until a few hours after landing. One odd thing I immediately noticed as we came in for landing in China was how brown the ocean water was. I’m not sure if that’s a result of the rivers carrying lots of sediment to the ocean near Shanghai or a pollution issue or what.  The next thing I noticed was that my phone didn’t work…at all. For some reason I thought I would be able to pick up some kind of cell phone signal and just have to pay roaming charges. Nope, not a blip of signal, nor was I able to access the airport wifi because it wanted to text me an access code, which I couldn’t get. Consequently, I found myself alone in China with potentially two hotel reservations and no means of communication to verify either. My flight also landed me in China about 5 hours before the bulk of the group would be showing up so I was on my own.



After waiting through what felt like a lot of different lines (passport check, customs, security, and maybe one other) I finally made it out of the airport. Waiting for us outside the gate were a mass of people offering transportation to our various destinations. One lady started yelling at me in English “Hotel? Hotel? Where you want go?” I told her I needed to get to the Hilton Double Tree and she came and grabbed my bag and said she would get me there. I told her I didn’t have any Chinese currency but only US dollars and my credit card. She said they would take a credit card and not to worry. Mike had said on one of the China intro videos that the best exchange rate for currency was actually at the Double Tree so I planned to change any money I needed there. The lady asked me 4 or 5 times to point out the exact hotel on the map so she was sure to send me to the right place. Then she charged me $700 Chinese Yuan on my credit card and sent me to wait for the cab. I wasn’t sure at that time but that seemed pretty steep, but I was just anxious to get to the hotel where so that I could meet up with the rest of the group when they arrived. It turns out that $700 Yuan translates to about $109! HOLY COW! Initially, I had toyed with the idea of walking to the hotel (I had packed lightly, after all, had 5 hours to kill, and thought it would be a fun way to get to know the “real” China by foot), but as the cab ride wore on I realized that the hotel was WAY farther away than I had anticipated. However, it was definitely NOT $109 far away. On top of that, before we even got to the hotel the cabby straight up told me to give him a tip, and even said “$20 USD is good.” Tired and resigned I just gave it to him.  I later found out that the cab ride for the rest of the group ran them $26 total, and Mike reminded me that he had warned everyone not to go with those tourist vultures in one of his videos (but it seems I forgot that part, to my dismay).

If I sound a little tired in this video it's because I was.

I arrived at the gorgeous and enormous Hilton Double Tree in Shanghai and went to check in. The used my passport to look up my reservation and…there was none. We tried different permutations of my name—W Scott, Will S, Will, Scott, W S, etc.—but continued to come up empty. I showed them the message from Matt about them having a room “bought and paid for” for me on my phone and they were able to verify that they had a reservation for Matt, so at least I knew I was in the right hotel and that as soon as they arrived we could sort everything out. In the mean time I asked them if I could just park myself on a couch in a corner of the enormous lobby for a few hours to wait for them, which they happily allowed me to do. Again, I tried to log in to their wifi but continued to be frustrated by the “text verification code” issue, and thus was unable to check if Mitzi had successfully cancelled my other hotel room or complete the process myself (and try to save the $150 room fee as some consolation for getting ripped so hard on my cab ride). I was also unable to communicate with Matt or Mike until they physically walked through the door to the hotel, whenever that was going to be. I did bump into a nice American tourist there for a business conference who tried to help me configure my phone to get some small amount of connectivity up and running, but to no avail. In the end, he very graciously allowed me to send Matt a text from his phone to let him know I’d arrived at the hotel but they had no reservation for me on file and that I would just be waiting in the lobby until they arrived.



Now I was starting to get tired, but I was worried the hotel staff would be forced to get after me if I fell asleep in the lobby, so I had to occupy myself. I ended up watching Edge of Tomorrow and 90% of The Bourne Identity on my backup phone over the next 3.5 hours until Mike and Matt walked through the door. I was exhausted. Everyone else in the group was introducing themselves to me, but by that point I’d been awake for almost 24 hours and was not going to remember much of anything at that point, so I asked them to kindly reintroduce themselves to me in the morning. Mike and I worked with the hotel staff to figure out what had happened with my reservation. After about 20 minutes of back-and-forth and confusion, Mike realized that he had mixed up two things in his mind: At the same time he was helping me get my visa sorted out, he was also booking a hotel room for another student that was flying in by himself (who he had confused with me). Funny enough, that student ended up falling asleep in the airport in Toronto during his layover and missed his flight to Shanghai! I ended up taking his room and, after all the hassle and at Mike’s request, the hotel staff actually hooked me up with a suite. The room was fantastic and with an amazing view of Shanghai’s central park. I took a long, hot bath (I love taking baths in hotels because they’re often the only bathtubs I can fit in) and then crashed. I was surprised to learn, however, that my hotel bed which looked so white, fluffy, and inviting, was about as hard as a box spring (like the one I slept on for the first two weeks of my mission as part of a prank by my roommates). The other hotel mattress was similar, leading me to conclude that standards of mattress softness in China are much different than they are in the US. Fortunately, I was tired enough that I slept through the night without trouble. I had made it!



Scott's China Trip - Part 1: Joining the Group and the Chinese Visa Fiasco


After I had given my two-weeks notice at AmeriBen in early September, I downloaded a bunch of podcasts to listen to and hopefully help me figure out what I wanted to do next. One of the podcasts was called “EasyResidual Income,” something I already had some experience with through my credit investing. I listened to two episodes in which Mike Gazzola was interviewed about how he and a partner (Matthew Behdjou) had started an Amazon store selling products they had sourced in China. They had grown their business to over $300,000 in sales in about 9 months starting from scratch (however, building off of their considerable marketing and business experience). A lot of what he said really gelled with many of the sound principles of business I have learned over the years and the way he gave away substantive, actionable information for free in his podcast convinced me that he actually had something of value to share.

A few days later I went to their website and signed up for their program. They do a phone interview to start people off and basically do a sales pitch for their course. In the podcast they mentioned that they were going to be taking a group of students with them to China to learn how to source their own products as well as getting some first-hand experience with Mike and Matt on the ground. I decided that I wanted to be a part of that China group and that if I simply followed their program, didn’t give up, asked a lot of questions, and did my homework, I would be able to at least make back the $10,000 tuition to be part of the China group and potentially much, much more.

The next few weeks were a scramble as my passport had expired and I also needed a visa (which you can only apply for after getting a passport). Consequently, I ended up paying a lot of expedited shipping and processing costs since I was really jumping in at the last minute. Everything with the passport went smoothly enough, but the visa was another story. Mike made a video about a visa company that he recommended and how to fill out their forms to send away for your visa. I got my passport and got everything arranged to send away for my visa on September 29th. I sent it via UPS overnight mail and requested the 2-3 day processing from the visa company. I received verification that they received it on Friday the 30th and was confident that they would be able to get it processed and back to me by the 6th or 7th of October before my Monday the 10th departure for China. Well, it turns out the week of October 3rd thru 7th is a Chinese holiday and no one was working so my visa didn’t get processed until Thursday and they sent it back to me FedEx discount shipping to arrive on Tuesday the 11th by 8:00pm! I was FREAKING OUT! It was bad enough I wasn’t going to have my visa in time, but they also had my passport too! I could actually probably have gotten to China with just a passport and then would have had to get a visa at the airport, but without a passport I wouldn’t be going anywhere. This company was about to cost me $10,000 in order to save $10 on shipping costs!

I forwarded the e-mail to Mike, with whom I had been in contact a few times via phone, e-mail, and text to get everything ready for China (his responsiveness and helpfulness also was very reassuring that I hadn’t just bought into a scam). Mike replied that he would look into what he could do but that we were probably going to need to work through FedEx. All this time I was in Salt Lake visiting my family and I was super stressed out because of this visa thing and I hadn’t even told anyone in my family at that point that I was going to China. I got on the phone with FedEx and they were basically like, “Sorry, our system doesn’t allow for changes once a package has been shipped. You need to call the people who sent it and have them call us to make the changes.” Well, I had concluded that after putting a rush order on my visa (which they had not met) and shipping it such that it would arrive 48 hours AFTER I needed it after specifically asking me when I needed it by, they weren’t going to be super helpful. I asked for a supervisor and told him that I needed him to think like a human being and not go off of what his system told him. I told him I needed a person at one of the stops along the way to find that package via the tracking number, physically grab a hold of it, and then put a new shipping label on it that I would pay for and e-mail or fax or whatever to them, and ship it to me overnight so I didn’t lose $10,000. Fortunately, he started thinking like a human and helped me put a stop order in place and gave me the fax number for the first destination hub for my package. All I had to do was print out a new label and fax it to them.

Easy enough, right? Wrong. The next two-and-a-half hours were spent unsuccessfully trying to navigate and operate the FedEx website to get a shipping label printed off, both from my home computer and from a FedEx branch in Salt Lake. Nothing was working and the staff couldn’t figure out why. As I was on the phone with their corporate office I got another call from a NY area code which I ignored even though I thought it could be Mike as I knew he was traveling (and I’d gotten calls from him from different area codes in the past). As I was about to leave the FedEx store to go back home and try on my computer again, I got a text from Mike that said: “Visa is handled will arrive tomorrow check your voicemail.” Hallelujah! I listened to my voicemail and Mike said he’d been on the phone for the past three hours putting the fear of swift annihilation into every person at UsChinaVisa.com he could get on the phone until he got someone who would actually take action and help. He found someone who drove down to FedEx and picked up the package before it got loaded and had it resent overnight mail to me. He even paid the guy $100 via PayPal just for helping us out in such a pinch. But to those who didn’t help he sent a strongly worded e-mail basically threatening to use all of his marketing skill and experience to tear their company’s reputation to shreds if they didn’t make this right immediately. When I called him he told me to delete the e-mail because he didn’t want me to think he was a mean person, but I told him that I was so glad to have one other person taking this situation as seriously as I was and really appreciated his help. This was another huge boost to my confidence that I hadn’t been too rash to invest so much money into a program without taking a longer time for due diligence (I did look them up online to search for any scam warnings or reviews and didn’t find much, good or bad, and kind came to a “no news is good news” conclusion). We got back from Boise the next day and sure enough, under our door mat (per the instructions I left on the door before leaving town) was a FedEx package with my passport and a 10-year China visa. What a relief!

It looked like I would be going to China after all.

Sunday, October 30, 2016

Ryan's Third Birthday!

Nothing much to talk about from last week. I got a free table from someone that I'm working on and I'm hoping it turns out cute. I'm also working on a jean quilt and some baby shower gifts. Along with the usual demands with the kids and household. Ryan is not doing great with potty training. I am tempted to put him back in diapers. I just might. We will see. Speaking of the little devil, I mean Ryan, he turned three yesterday! I can't believe it. We are loving the freedom of not having a baby around after almost 9 straight years. We carved pumpkins yesterday and went to Pojos. 

Some things about Ryan. He is LOUD, really loud. He likes to talk in a really drawn out low tones, Paapaa... He likes to read books. He loves to play in the dirt. He will go out to my flower beds and grab fistfuls of dirt and throw it around and all over himself. He's a stubborn cuss. He's a cute little guy, we just love him to pieces.  

Gabby lost her front tooth, she cashed in extra because she lost two teeth on location and the tooth fairy missed it! I'm hoping that she loses the other front tooth by Christmas!

C is for crab.

Gabby came home from school and busted out this owl for her teacher who loves owls. What I should have taken a picture of was the giant mess she left behind. Ha. 

I painted this table for a friend.

1st grade picture.

3rd grade picture.

Newest project. 

Spider treats. A friend invited us over for a little Halloween play date.


Carving Pumpkins

Pojos!


Blow out the candles.

Pumpkins!


Sunday, October 23, 2016

Halloween Party

I have been potty training Ryan this past week. He's doing pretty good and I haven't done much. Since this is the third attempt he already knows how to pee in the toilet so I didn't have to do much there. The first few days I was just having him pee regularly because I didn't want to deal with accidents but then I decided I needed to see if he actually understood the urges and would act on them. I bought some juice and pumped him full and then waited to see if he would tell me. Miraculously he did! I did that for a few more days and he's got that part down. He will come and tell me when he needs to pee. Music to my ears! Finally! He still poops in his underwear everyday. I'm hoping he will figure that out soon. He is very resistant to do it on the toilet (as most kids tend to be) so we still have to jump that hurdle. He wakes up wet every morning as well. I think he is trying his best to keep my humble. Ha. My other kids were trained day and night at 2 1/2 and Ryan is 3 this week and may have to do the pull up. Oh well!

The kids had Thursday and Friday off of school. That can make for some LONG days. We went to Camelback park on Friday. The weather was beautiful and Corbin, Gabby, and I did a little hike while Scott watched the other kids play at the park.

Yesterday we went to a Halloween party. My friend went ALL out. They had a bounce house, face painting, pumpkin hunt, and pumpkin painting. The food was yummy too. It was someone from my book club that invited us so we didn't know most of the people there so that was kind of awkward but it was still fun and the kids didn't seem to mind. It was a good time and the weather was beautiful and my friend has an amazing backyard so it was all good.


View from our hike. I love the red leaves!

I'm running away from the headless horseman. Ha. Or not. I'm the worst! 

There's a sneaky ninja behind me.

Sooo cute!





Sunday, October 16, 2016

Scott Goes to China

Scott is on his way home from China right now. He quit his job with Ameriben about a month ago. It wasn't a good fit for him. He was/is trying to figure out what to do now and found out about these guys that buy things in bulk from China and then sell it on Amazon through Amazon. Scott went into research mode as he is prone to do and decided he wanted to try it. The dudes teach people how to do it and organize the trip you just have to pay for it. Scott left on Monday and has been with the group in China since. Our communication has been limited as China is 14 hours ahead and the internet is spotty. He downloaded wechat that is an app that basically sends text through the internet and you can also make phone calls with it as well. Scott would call for a few minutes at the craziest time of my night: dinner, dishes, homework, reading, clean up messes, bedtime but we would chat for a bit. It will be interesting to hear all about his adventures and how/if this new venture will work out. I certainly hope it does of course as does he.

I've survived the week really well actually. It helps a lot that my "baby" is almost three. I'm not nearly as swamped as I've felt in the past with all the little chillins. It's been especially pretty easy since Gabby and Corbin are in school all day and Piper and Ryan are easy. Like I mentioned above the night was my craziest time but it wasn't too bad. I'm ready for Scott to be home though that's for sure.

I decided to try for the third time to potty train Ryan. I've been putting it off forever because I've already failed twice and because potty training is the devil. I was running out of diapers and just decided to suck it up and do it rather than buy more. I started yesterday. He's doing pretty good. We'll see how it goes...

Here's some more pictures from our Utah trip.






Ryan looks like such a big boy in this picture to me. He's growing up!

Some of the late night Lagooners

Greta and Gabby tattoos


I love this picture



Sweet hair pic!


We got up early to take Scott to the airport Monday morning and Ryan was tuckered out later. So cute.

Early morning snuggies and selfies.

Corbin had Ryan feed Lizzie because he didn't want to touch the meal worms. I will admit when I fed Lizzie yesterday I did the same thing. Ryan doesn't seem to mind picking up the meal worm and having them squirm in his fingers. Usually Scott feeds Lizzie but I had to make sure we kept her alive this week. Lucky for Lizzie the kids reminded me to feed her. I don't even think about her because we never interact with her. Spot had a damaged eye so he would never move and the kids played with him constantly. Gabby would just color while Spot sat on her shoulder. She came in sobbing to Scott the other day because she missed Spot so much. So cute and sad. 

Piper snitching some chocolate chips, just like me! Ha.

Hey I actually did a pre-school activity with Piper! Ha. I'm going to try to do more stuff with her this year, I'm glad I have another year with her.

Corbin wanted to earn some money badly so he raked leaves for a long time yesterday. At one point he got Gabby and Piper to join him. They were all outside raking and having a good time. Such a rare and precious moment. Ha.


Ryan even jumped in. I love how snug Ryan's underwear is with his padunkadunk. Hilarious. I had to sew all my other kids underwear to fit them and they were still too big, granted Ryan is older than my other kids were during potty training but still they certainly fit him snug the first two times I tried as well.